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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options that enhance the player's experience, providing some of the most memorable moments in the game. Whether you're looking for a deep, ongoing relationship or a fleeting encounter, Baldur's Gate 3 has options for every type of player. In this guide, we'll walk you through how to initiate and maintain every romance option, ensuring you don't miss out on any potential relationships.
All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### Romance in BG3 Explained:
In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is accessible to all players regardless of their character's gender. The game offers both short-term and long-term romantic relationships, each tailored to the unique personalities and storylines of the characters. Some characters may be open to a 'One-Night Stand,' while others require a more extended courtship. Be mindful that certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths, especially if you pursue multiple relationships simultaneously.
Most companion NPCs are eligible for romance, and engaging with them romantically will alter your interactions throughout the game. This means a single playthrough won't allow you to experience all romance options fully. We delve into the specifics of each relationship in our detailed guides below.
All Romance Options:
The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:
- Shadowheart
- Gale
- Astarion
- Karlach
- Wyll
- Lae'zel
- Halsin
- Minthara
For short-term romance, the following non-companion characters are available:
- Mizora
- Guardian/Emperor
- Drow Twins
- Haarlep
- Naoise Nallinto
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3
Shadowheart is often the first companion you meet, making her a natural choice for romance. Her interest can be sparked early in the game if you manage to increase her approval rating. Whether you choose to romance her is up to you, but doing so adds depth to her narrative arc.
Shadowheart is open to both long-term and short-term relationships, with opportunities in every act. Starting in Act I can lead to a sustained relationship throughout the game.
How to Romance Shadowheart:
- Keep Shadowheart in your party to boost her approval. She values kindness, non-violence, and privacy. Support her against Lae'zel for an early approval boost.
- Reach a high approval level in Act I and look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue. Alternatively, wait for the party after rescuing Halsin. If you've shown interest, you'll see an exclamation mark over her head. Share a bottle with her, choose to spend the evening with her, and during your walk, avoid dialogue options that show disinterest. The night should end with a kiss. After this, you can confirm if you want a long-term relationship.
- In Act II, you can support either Selune or Shar and continue the romance. Support her new look if she chooses Selune, or be patient for a nighttime event if she chooses Shar.
- In Act III, complete her quest regardless of her deity choice. This will lead to a final romantic scene, often involving a swim. Choose the more affectionate dialogue options to progress to a special scene.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
- Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though the rules are not always clear. In Honor Mode, it's best to focus solely on her.
How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3
Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is another significant character whose romance can deeply influence the game's narrative.
How to Romance Gale:
- Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site to start.
- Comply with his requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
- Attend his magic lesson in Act I, choosing dialogue that leads to a romantic outcome. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
- Before moving to Act II, support Gale during the Elminster cutscene. Show that you care about his fate.
- In Act III, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Before resting, speak with Gale and choose "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" to unlock a romantic scene.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
- Gale does not tolerate open relationships and will be unhappy if you romance others.
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3
Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance, and his open-mindedness makes him a flexible partner.
How to Romance Astarion:
- Increase his approval by joining your party early and choosing self-serving options. He enjoys sarcasm and often disapproves of helping others.
- Allow him to drink your blood to boost your relationship.
- During the party, speak with Astarion and choose dialogue that leads to the first major romance scene. Let him bite you during this scene to raise approval further.
- After the first scene, show interest in his scars and ask about their Infernal writing.
- In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars. Astarion will visit you at night; choose dialogue affirming your affection.
- In Act III, complete his quest. Depending on your choice about the ritual, you can either support him or become a vampire yourself, leading to a special scene.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
- Astarion is open to you having other romantic encounters without getting truly angry.
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3
Karlach's romance is one of the most rewarding in the game, though it requires careful navigation, especially regarding other relationships.
How to Romance Karlach:
- Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr when you first meet her. Add her to your party early to build approval. She values kindness, understanding, and justified violence.
- Collect Infernal Iron to help Dammon fix her heart in Act I. After the fix, express disappointment at not being able to touch her, and affirm your interest.
- At the party, tell her your feelings. Later, suggest throwing water on her to cool her down temporarily for a kiss. The next morning, affirm your idea to her.
- In Act II, continue to collect Infernal Iron and have Dammon tune her up at the Last Light Inn.
- In Act III, take her on a date to further your relationship.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
- Karlach will become very angry if you sleep with others. Apologize sincerely if this happens, and she may take you back.
- Once her heart is fixed, you can commit to a long-term relationship, which lasts the rest of the game with unique dialogue.
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3
Wyll's romance can significantly enhance his storyline, adding depth to his character's struggles.
How to Romance Wyll:
- Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Help him understand the situation with Karlach.
- Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove. If your approval is high enough, Wyll will be available for a romantic night during the party.
- In Act II, after a long rest, you'll encounter Wyll dancing. Choose romantic dialogue options during this encounter.
- In Act III, help him save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to unlock the final romantic scene.
How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3
Lae'zel's interest in the player is evident early on, offering both short-term and long-term romance options.
How to Romance Lae'zel:
- Raise her approval by taking decisive action and favoring combat over persuasion or deception. She appreciates intimidation.
- Once her approval is high, mention her changed demeanor in camp to initiate a one-night stand.
- In Act II, she'll challenge you to a duel at night. Regardless of the outcome, it will strengthen your bond.
- In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on her allegiance with Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a public relationship in the ending sequence.
Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:
- Lae'zel will end the relationship if you cheat after the duel.
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3
Halsin's romance appeals to many due to his unique character and storyline.
How to Romance Halsin:
- Ensure you complete all of Halsin's quests before the end of Act II to avoid being locked out of romance.
- Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion in Act II after helping him locate Thaniel.
- Keep him in your party and act kindly, show reverence for nature, and promote fairness to increase his approval.
- Regularly check and exhaust his dialogue options, especially those about former lovers.
- Once his approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night and ask about other relationships. Shadowheart and Astarion are okay with this, but Karlach and Gale are not.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3
Minthara's romance is unique as she is typically an enemy, making it ideal for evil or Durge playthroughs.
How to Romance Minthara:
- Avoid attacking the Goblin Camp and instead meet Minthara peacefully. Side with her to betray your party and the Emerald Grove.
- After defeating the grove, tell her it was an honor to fight beside her, 'Embrace the change,' and open your mind. She'll visit your camp.
- At the goblin party, tell Minthara you are hers and go to bed. If you pass the persuasion check, the encounter will be successful.
Recent updates suggest you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp, rescue her in Act II at Moonrise Towers, and then romance her. We will update this information once verified.
Minthara Romance Special Notes:
- Choosing this path will drastically change your game experience and alienate other party members.
All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### How to Romance Mizora:
- Ensure Wyll is in your party and do not side with Minthara.
- Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
- In Act III, find her at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. Discuss Duke Ravengard, and she'll promise to visit your camp.
- When she visits, rest until you see an exclamation mark over her head. Speak to her and choose the dialogue options leading to the romance scene. This is a one-time event.
How to Romance the Guardian:
- Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III.
- Evolving into a Half-Ilithid can help with approval.
- Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about his past lover.
- When the Emperor visits after this discovery, choose to hold their hand.
- During their next visit, respond positively to their advances to trigger the romance scene.
How to Romance the Drow Twins:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing during Act III.
- Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar. Either complete her quest or pay directly to access the twins.
- Go to the designated chambers to initiate the scene. Avoid involving Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.
How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:
- Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
- Encounter Haarlep, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.
How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:
- Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing.
- Find the locked door marked by a green lantern on the second floor. Pick the lock or get the key from Mamzell.
- Enter to find Naoise and Jara. After defeating the Mindflayer, follow Naoise's cues for a romantic scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.
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